Badly Drawn Crab is judging you. Wikipedia & Urban Dictionary, trustworthy sources for life knowledge (but NOT for academic writing) tell me that the crab mentality is a (social) psychology phenomenon based on what happens with crabs in a bucket. […]
RuPaul’s Drag Race S08E04 & S08E05 TV RECAP (Spoilers!)
Oh my GOD can I please have Bob follow me around? And whenever something dumb happens he’ll just turn to me with this face and I will feel such a profound sense of understanding and comradery that nothing will get to […]
Self Help Hipster Podcast S01E07
Yoooo, new podcast up!
Play Offense, Not Defense.
Journaling Your Goals – Catherine Joy Perkins
A million years ago, I read an ebook that I think anyone who loves journaling and planning would enjoy. Journaling Your Goals – Catherine Joy Perkins. But of course, I got distracted and never wrote about it. Luckily I remember […]
You Don’t Have To Do Anything
(picture by Andrew) A couple of days ago, I was having a conversation with a reader I know. I don’t know all of you, but I know some of you. Via comments, emails, the occasional coaching session. Sure, you may […]
Favorite Quotes from My ‘Be Your Own Hero’ E-book
(OMG guys look how young and adorable and not yet completely broken down by life I am in this picture. Sigh. Memories. Made by Mariet) I sometimes reread my own articles and ebooks.* I don’t know, sometimes I just need […]
Balanzs Chakra Workshop
Two week ago, after brunch at Crunch (don’t order the scrambled eggs) and cava at Clarence*, Lin and I towed through cold The Hague to the Balanzs Chakra Workshop. The Balanzs yoga studios (The Hague and Rotterdam) are nice and […]
My favourite Steve Pavlina quotes, part II
When I first started out on this website, I kind of wanted to be like Steve Pavlina. But a girl. And not as controversial. And not (as) into BD/SM and dominant-submissive relationships. Point is, Steve, one of the biggest self […]
RuPaul’s Drag Race S08E03 TV RECAP (Spoilers)
Honestly, these season 8 episodes are SO exciting. My blogs on Wednesday might be a bore for anyone who has no idea OR interest in drag queens, but if you know and love RuPaul’s Drag Race? Season 8 is ON […]
Focus and Slow Down
I recently figured out what my problem is. Well, one of my problems. My many problems. Tip of the iceberg, really. ANYWAY.
How to Win At Making Friends
So. You met someone. They’re nice. Funny. Easy to talk to. Their .GIF usage is ON POINT. BUT. You do NOT want to take them out, you do NOT want their pants off. You just wanna hang out! Have a […]